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Week of 7/5/2026

Pastor Nate Gallagher

John 3:1-15 – Snapshots in the book of John – Born Again

In this passage, we are introduced to a man, Nicodemus. He was a Pharisee and a member of the Sanhedrin which means he was a well studied and influential leader. Nicodemus came to Jesus by night. Night is representative of spiritual blindness (John 1:5).

In this passage, we see that Nicodemus asks Jesus 3 questions. 1) Are you From God?  2) How can someone be born when they are old?  3) How can these things be?

1. Are you from God? (v.2)

Nicodemus asked this question to confirm his thinking of the way God works. Jesus didn’t answer the question directly; Jesus often answers the question we should’ve asked versus the question we asked. Nicodemus essentially asks Jesus, “Do you fit into my expectation of how God works?”

Q: How often do you set your plan before God and ask Him to bless it?

Q: Do you find yourself putting your own expectation and purpose for life before God’s expectation and purpose for your life?

Remember He rewrites our plans and makes us new through new birth, which is available for everyone who believes.

2. How can someone be born when they are old? (v.4)

Jesus replies to this question with an introductory amen (this is true). The rebirth is spiritual and cannot be accomplished in the physical or through human effort. New birth and life with Christ is the work of the Spirit. The work of the Spirit gives us a new identity – He transforms us from the inside out. It is not merely about our conversion but our salvation and subsequent transformation.

Q: In a world that has a strong identity crisis, do you remember that your identity is found in Christ (Galatians 2:19-20)?

Q: How have you been transformed from the inside out since your rebirth? If comfortable, share areas in your life where you have overcome by His Spirit.

Q: Are there areas of your life God is seeking to transform but you are holding back?

3. How can these things be? (v.9)

Jesus answers Nicodemus’ question knowing that Nicodemus did not have a lack of knowledge or understanding but rather a lack of faith. Jesus doesn’t give him information, He offers him transformation. Jesus references the Old Testament story of Israel’s rebellion against God and His provision, yet God’s love extended to His people through the serpent suspended on Moses’ rod. Jesus stated that in similar manner, “even so the Son of Man shall be lifted up that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.”

Q: Healing (redemption) coming through the serpent was unexpected. How has God brought redemption in your life in an unexpected way?

Q: Are there areas of your life where you lack faith?

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, He is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” 2 Corinthians 5:17